okay, my phrasing wasn't good, true. but we could still have brought those countries into NATO without alienating russia by giving them the choice to truly stand down and join in on their own. i doubt they would have, though. do you think they would have accepted the measures that japan and germany did in order to remain aa part of the global community? i don't.part II
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There are two approaches to standing down the risk of aggression from someone / something.
One is to inform them that you are no threat, and that they can put down the gun.
The other is to continue to hold the gun on them for perpetuity, KNOWING that even a brief moment's lapse could spell your own doom.
OBVIOUSLY surrounding Russia with NATO members might have seemed to prevent Russian adventurism.
But it would have left Russia at odds, odd man out, disenfranchised from the world, a permanent if not eternal 2nd class member of the community of nations, with no realistic prayer of ever acquiring for its people a standard of living comparable to that of the West.
ABSOLUTELY it's one approach. BUT !!
As a former Cold Warrior, as a component of NATO's complement in time of that Cold War, I believe if we'd done that with Germany and Japan we'd still be at virtual Cold War with each of them. I think that's TOTALLY a horrid idea!
I think it worked out MUCH better welcoming them as friends, allies, peers, and equal share partners in the global prosperity we've managed to develop since the pair of giant mushrooms faded from Japan's sky.
You think a double-standard is better? Why?
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so i see why you thought of it as a double standard, i'm not always great at getting my thoughts properly expressed.