"Really? Guess you missed this. Worn during a visit to a migrant children's detention center." #2,174
I remember the garment & the wording. I don't recall the detention center / connection.
In statistical sampling there are many different protocols, including the sample size of 3.
a) I would ABSOLUTELY agree that IF the somewhat cryptic garment comment were intended as contemptuous disregard for the welfare of helpless / needy children, it would be an alarming statement worth including in her overall character assessment.
b) Perhaps recklessly wrongly, but at the time (Trump's first term?) I thought it might be a comment on her husband, or her marriage, or perhaps more generally a benign embrace of the Bobby McFerrin mantra: - don't worry, be happy -
c) Is there anything here we can legitimately consider a pattern? Contempt for the innocent / needy?
I also remember this:

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She stood husband Donald off at his second inauguration, his lips apparently never reached her on this celebratory on camera occasion.
It may be true that she's equally contemptuous of orphans and presidents. BUT !
Ockham's Razor, it literally was not the first Trump inauguration she attended. Not difficult for me to believe she prepared, right down to the breadth of the brim of her headgear.
And while we could assume it was purely personal because (perhaps) Don has bad breath, it may also have been a deliberate public smack-down.
I feel sorry for Melania. "Those who marry for money earn it." psychologist Joy Browne
Not quite clear to me why they're still married, except perhaps if she's bound by ADDITIONAL / supplemental contract (beyond the standard) matrimonial obligation.
Bottom line: the issue is Trump administration, Republican policy. Finding fault with the first lady seems to me squandering ink on a distraction.